Posted by: Briar Rose | January 2, 2007

What Has Love Taught Me Lately?

Matters Of The Heart

5. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t “be friends.”A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend. Don’t settle.

4. Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within.

3. Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are…even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are.

2. You should not be the one doing all the bending…compromise is a two way street. You need time to heal between relationships…there is nothing cute about baggage. Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you… a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals… look for someone complimentary…not supplementary.

1. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

Oprah Winfrey

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